A close-knit neighbourhood starts with drinking coffee together

Many people hardly know their neighbours. In De Hanzehoek, things are different. Thanks to residents Betty (73) and Femmy (79), a close-knit community has emerged for 13 years. How? With drinks in the hall, crafts afternoons and, above all, an open attitude. In the hall hang mandalas that were coloured in together. Everyone coloured a piece. A colourful symbol of solidarity.

Coffee, chores and contact

Every week, 20 to 25 residents join the coffee morning. Outside in nice weather, otherwise in a cosy room of community centre Hanzeborg. This is where friendships are formed and help is close at hand: walking a dog, assembling a cupboard, carrying a message. Small gestures, big difference.

When I broke my leg, a neighbour walked my dog every day. That was SO nice." - Betty

Sharing life's joys and sorrows

New residents receive flowers or chocolates. In case of illness, there is attention. Femmy arranges this with the Love and Sorrow pot of Welzijn Lelystad. She explains what goes on in the complex. This makes everyone feel welcome and involved. My husband and I couldn't do much because of health problems. Then a neighbour in the supermarket asked if she could bring something for us,' says Femmy

Parties and traditions

From Christmas drinks to Easter brunches, residents celebrate together. With cards in the Christmas tree, a dinner party or a toast at midnight. Half of the residents participate and that says it all.

Getting started yourself?

Start small. Have coffee with a few neighbours. Don't visit all the doors right away, but invite people as you go along. Let ideas arise and, above all, be open and honest. That way it will grow naturally.

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A chat and a cup of coffee can be just the beginning of a close-knit neighbourhood. College Ayse Ozturk is happy to tell you all about it.

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